Melissa, I just now came across this article. Teachers often missed their PPA (planning, preparation and assessment) time because they were dealing with pupils behaviour. There were a lot of extra duties and assignments at the school - weekly lesson plans that were often criticized for minor flaws, morning and afternoon duty to make sure there werent fights on campus, etc. Between the scheduling and standardized-test-organizing and discipline issues andparent phone calls and endlesson- and off-campus meetings, sometimes even a ten-minute walk-through is an achievement. Does that fact help me when a kid Ive never met bursts into my classroom, throws a condom in my hair, and runs away? Teaching has some unique challenges when compared to other careers, including the following. It's remarkable." I was not a statistic. "I jumped from fourth grade to sixth grade math, and even though it was just a difference of two years, the job completely changed. Each year, there isadifferent set of goals to accomplish some you set yourself, and some that have almost nothingto do with your specific classroom environment and it is up to you to prove youve met them. Wow! . So now, my administrations sees what I want them to see. I really appreciate the share! I hope the teachers and parents who read your blog will check out my website, too. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Its, 3. When weclose ourdoor each day and stride to the front of the classroom, its easy to fall prey to the illusion that we are in charge. What a ride! Create a pros and cons list to try to take the emotions out of your decision-making when you start. Mr. Bruces class, on the other hand, was warm, welcoming, and he (me) spent time after school making sure that the special needs kids got a different test, or read the test to them, etc., etc., etc. I hope you enjoyed the first year in your new role! And I cried each and every time I filled them out. The public hears teacher and scoff because they think: union, tenure, and tests. You are not in charge of how well they slept, or the breakup that happened last week, or iftheir family has enough money for breakfast but all of those things affect test scores. Would love to see you write a more detailed blog post about it some time. Badgering the mods will probably get you permabanned. Finished my second time through, got certified, now am working in the school where I student taught. What is WRONG with these people? I remember struggling with this when I was in the process of applying for roles outside of teaching. I interviewed for a position in September because I was graduating that December and couldnt wait for a new school year. Its time to write a post about that. I loved it at first. I once felt the same as you however, I decided to NOT let the administration, parents, students, etc. This laid back, I dont care attitude has really helped me like my job again. No. Its Robert, or just Bruce., Look you have an obligation to teach in the way I have prescribed for you, and to get those test scores up. But now I sit here, at the end of semester one, third year, absolutely loathing university, and looking toward a life full of planning, planning, and being able to go home from work in the afternoons, only to find that even that is just planning in disguise, and it just all seems never-ending. (Its more common than you may think). Wewere students, after all. I do a little tutoring for home-schooled students & I find it very rewarding. This is the biggest bunch of BS from a person with cry baby Union mentality! I hope shes found joy in her new career, though I totally understand that there is nothing quite like teaching. Now, everyone in that district has an exit strategy. Yes, your child is special, but so is every other student in my class. Well, I graduated, but the job offers werent happening. And dont call me Bob. After a year without them, you might miss their unbridled school spirit during Homecoming Week, their contagious sense of humor, the way they draw pictures for youand wave joyous hellosin the hallways. Here are the other things that matter: Helping a group ofstudents work through a disagreement civilly. Understand the differences between the levels. I appreciate your post. what career ouside the classroom is right for you? And I absolutely adore kids. Ive learned something out here in real-job land. I have found that after all the standards and benchmarks and infighting, that we the teachers, still know what is best for our students. You are given the toughest students because you can handle them. Thank you. Please dont give up on teaching we need people with your passion! Editor's Note: If you enjoyed this article, please become a Patreon supporter by clicking here. , As a Teacher, I was Quiet Quitting Before it was Cool, Teacher Survival Kit: What Teachers ACTUALLY Need. All the best, When sheran her first Toddler Turkey Trot lastNovember,the people in charge asked if I wanted to buy her a medal. So many Id them are completely apathetic and extremely rude. I am fed up with being a substitute teacher especially now with COVID. I negotiated a settlement with the district, and only went back the next August before school started to clean out my room. With that said, I however encouraged my oldest son to NOT become a teacher. , Wow you have the opposite experience of Laura above: teacher first, and then corporate America. Welp, I found this by typing I hate teaching. Spot on. By. Some of the best teachers I knew secretly wanted out. Youll learn everything from how to translate your skills and experience to job searching, networking, resume writing, interview skills, and everything in between. 2. So thank you to both of you! Great to hear from you, and thanks again for your kind words! Its not the school (kids, families) that I dont loveits the constant string of new administrators and all that that implies. Sadly, she had to resign and go to work in the private sector. The second being they arent sure what else they could do. Your blog post sums it up perfectly well. Teaching is one of those professions where we are so critical of ourselves and how we carry out our job. Sounds like an interesting concept for a book, Brian! The Mean Teacher: This teacher views children as always out to take advantage of others any way they can, all the time. Keep the blog posts comin Melissa, you have me entranced! I literally have to micromanage each and every one of them to do work while a few of them are off sneaking out, theres always at least one kid who pathologically lies about everything in addition to a plethora of learning disorders, mood disorders, special considerations etc. Even when kids are disruptive I shouldn't hate them. Ive taught in California and Michigan. Im a new teacher (only year 4) and Im already starting to feel burned out. Its important to really weigh to pros and cons of your situation. Where are they going to get people like me as salaries drop, tests get dumber and dumber, benefits are slashed, and teaching is more and more of a mechanical exercise than the art it used to be? But, um, back in my day look, even a decade ago it felt a little simpler to practice using something TRULY innovative: our brains. Those are the things that teach us who we are. A lot of teachers get caught up in this sense of stability and a lifelong plan. Please keep in touch! I dont want to do this anymore. I am fortunate that I have the ability to devote more time to my husband, children and grandchildren. Five year olds forced to understand that they are in the low group because they cant read fluently and they can improve by reading more..when in actuality they are developmentally not able to meet some of these standards without yelling and punishing and forcing. One day, I ended up in hospital with concussion and a suspected broken nose. He says that youre brilliant, youre funny, youre caring, and kind, and he says you know EVERYTHING!!! Even if you thought teaching would be your forever career, its okay to look into different career paths. If youre a planner like me, it feels really good when you have it all figured out including your career. In fact, it is all they know. Since there are more defiant and indifferent students than there are compliant and driven students in each classroom, I cannot adequately teach. Another method isto placethe burden of proof upon the teacher. The truth is, there are numerous career pivots that teachers can make with their plethora of transferable skills. I take that as a good sign. During a fire drill theyll remind you to take your roster. EP 01 Introducing The Teacher Career Coach Podcast. Thats a lot of improvement, if you believe in that sort of thing, Yes, well, the State is going to be evaluating you on those test scores next year, and me, too, So, is that what this is really about? Staying for the kids is what I did for the last 5 years. In theory, this should work but in practice, youve got to be kidding. It means that Johnny might have actually earned a D this time. You should be the commissioner of education. Mandatory after school tutoring and the drive to raise our scores sucks all the joy out of teaching for me. Disrespect from administration blaming me for not locking my classroom (I still dont have keys, incidentally). Haha! Thank you for this article. If I were teaching, I really think Id like itmaybe love it even. It doesnt help the teaching guilt when coworkers and loved ones (usually unintentionally) add pressure by focusing on teaching being a calling instead of a career that they have the choice to walk away from. Most people are afraid to call it out thanks for doing that! And weekends arent enough. On 2): my kids come home from school and then they fight over who goes to bathroom first. It is not some scam where they get 4 paid months off. I too miss my colleagues and my students, but I couldnt stay in a profession that was slowly killing me. I dropped out at 17, enlisted in the Navy, worked a series of low skill labor jobs. Words cant express how much I relate to this. . 10 Must-Read Research Articles on COVID & Schools. Unfortunately, I am limping rather than inspiring. People were often found silently crying in various rooms around the school. They are warm and generous and responsible. This is my advice. I was up at 3am thinking about work today and stumbled across this all 7 are spot on. I dont teach to a test. I hate the teachers who refer to their students as their "children" (and as a parent, if my son's teacher ever does that, I'll chew them out, he already has two excellent parents). I feel the same. Thank you for putting into words all these mixed feelings we, as teachers, suffer and share. My colleagues tell me things got much worse now than they were 5 years ago in terms of things you covered in your article and other factors (I worked in a state-controlled title 1 school where state-control just got tighter.) Maybe well both find our way back to the classroom one day! But more importantly, I believed that not all schools and districts were the same, and if I looked, I might find a place where I fit in. I have been teaching for 17 years and turned my resignation in last week. For three years, I struggled to get out. They deserve to gather around a rocking chair and feed their imaginations. To acknowledgethe occasion, let metake you behind the scenes of my blog and share the number one phrase BY FAR that brings people to my site: The proof. Other teachers really enjoy working in schools with robust and supported AP/IB programs with parents who are involved in their kids' education. When I plan a lesson, I ask myself what the kids need to know or be able to do. Thank you for your honest and accurate works. Most of my colleagues have been as well. At some point, just about everyone has satin a classroom. Administrators admired my classroom management. Please direct quitting posts to r/TeachersInTransition, Press J to jump to the feed. They Facetime with other people, they sit on the desks, they eat with masks off, and they play inappropriate music and videos in class because there are no consequences. They start middle school as cute, eager-to-learn children, then suddenly morph into weird, smelly, hormone-driven angst factories that can barely be described as human. I needed out, or I was going to end up dead. There is so much stigma associated with this huge decision. I recently left teaching after only 4 years. Hold them to a higher standard. So nice to hear from you, and please keep in touch! STOP IT. The only time you typically deal with students face-to-face is because of a discipline issue. The bottom line is if you find yourself thinking, I hate teaching on a regular basis, its time to get help (therapy, burnout support, other) or leave the profession. I expected my headteacher to support me. It seems like only so much can be done. You nailed it! its noy why I got into teaching . Learn how your comment data is processed. I felt stagnant, miserable, and burned out. It is crazy the direction education has taken, and so sad. Thank you for the blog! After two decades of teaching, this is the phrase I hear the most: I hate teaching. That, combined with your students test scores, shall determine whether or not you are an effective educator. Can I pleasejust talk aboutOf Mice and Meninstead? Deep down, they know exactly whats going on. What a fascinating perspective you have, as you worked 10 years in corporate America first! When staff sought support, they were made to feel it was their fault, and their responsibility alone to deal with it. I am at times used as an example by administration. This should be required reading for every legislator in Lansing and in every other state Capitol. We have chosen and studied education know what we are doing, and no what to do for these kids, and at the end of the day, that is enough for me. When my four children attended school in this district they couldnt wear jeans with holes. This is brilliant And these are most of the reasons I dont want to teach anymoreeven though Im so good at it. 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